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Safety

We’re passionate about safety and trust. Here’s what that means for your dating experience.

Stay Secure by Staying Here
We monitor for suspicious behavior. If you move to another app, that safety disappears.
Video Comfort, Safety Checks
Deepfakes are real. Enjoy the chat, then confirm identity independently.
Don’t Be a Target
Blackmailers often ask for intimate photos, then threaten to send them to your friends and family.
Pick a Place You Can Exit Easily
Stay in public venues so you can leave if needed without pressure.
Keep a Safety Contact Informed
Tell someone who you’re meeting and the location of your date.
Charge It and Carry It
Make sure your phone’s ready before you step out the door.
Keep Your Travel Private
Use your own or public transport and don’t share your home address.
Keep Perspective
It’s a date, not a party. Light drinking keeps you safe and comfortable.
Go Home Alone and Safe
After your first meeting, travel home yourself and skip home invites.
Keep It Fun and Fresh
Enjoy new experiences and the excitement of meeting someone special.